How do you see yourself? Are you fun, lovable and beautiful or dull, tedious and hideous? If you’re the former and thinking objectively of course, how could others hope to keep their hands off you or might anything except the perfect relationship eventuate, before continuing from strength to strength? If however, you fear the latter description applies, why would anybody want to come within a hundred feet of you, making bachelorhood a good option or else the most unsatisfactory liaisons, because you’ll never find anything else? Happy relationships are one proposition then, but your own state of mind comes first. |